Lexicon

Modular entries on mechanics, incentives, algorithms, and asymmetries.

  1. 01

    Overview

    What is a dating app, economically? Market size, user base, activation rates, and the rough frame for everything that follows.

    5 min · market · intro

  2. 02

    Asymmetries

    Gendered swipe rates, match distribution, the Pareto effect, the Lorenz curve — the fundamental divergence from which nearly everything else follows.

    7 min · behavior · gender · distribution

  3. 03

    Attention economy

    Top-10 % concentration, signal loss from mass swiping, cognitive overload, and the feedback loop between the two sides of the market.

    6 min · behavior · economy

  4. 04

    Communication & ghosting

    Initiation rates, first-message effort, response times, ghosting by age — what happens after the match.

    6 min · communication · ghosting

  5. 05

    KPIs explained

    PVS, SMR, MRR, MDC, dwell time — definitions, formulas, gender-specific benchmarks. The basis for the analyzer.

    8 min · kpi · benchmarks

  6. 06

    Algorithmic mechanics

    From ELO to dynamic engagement; Gale-Shapley, collaborative filtering, reciprocal recommenders — how apps decide who sees whom.

    8 min · algorithms · ml

  7. 07

    Monetization & incentives

    Why the "search problem" is more lucrative than the "stable marriage problem"; paywalls, artificial scarcity, surveillance pricing, duopoly.

    7 min · economy · monetization

  8. 08

    Algorithmic bias

    Racial bias, popularity bias, socio-economic effects — discrimination through machine learning.

    6 min · bias · fairness · ml

  9. 09

    Safety & trust

    Romance scams, harassment, platform migration to niches — the trust crisis of mainstream dating.

    6 min · safety · crime

  10. 10

    LGBTQIA+ & non-binary reality

    Structural exclusion, label fatigue, fetishization, the shelter paradox — the platform as ambivalent space.

    6 min · lgbtqia · queer · safety

  11. 11

    Glossary

    Alphabetical index of terms with cross-references to the main articles.

    4 min · reference · glossary